Thoughts on "Senior Day"
Sunday was Senior Day for UofL's Softball team. As we near the end of the spring sports season, we see the traditional celebrations for each team's "graduating" "seniors". I put air quotes around both words because the tradition of Senior Day is more a recognition of the end of a player's collegiate eligibility, or perhaps their expectation that they will no longer be involved with the team for some reason or another.
Many players will have already graduated with an undergraduate degree and have already embarked on some graduate level courses, and occasionally, in extraordinary cases...I'm thinking of Tia Gibbs, as an example...will have achieved more than one degree. Others, on the other hand, may be taking the next major step of their life before they finish a degree. Whatever the case, its very possible that the athletes being honored are neither seniors, nor graduating.
I love the tradition of Senior Day, even if it does sometimes feel a bit scripted. The young men and women that compete in collegiate athletics and are preparing to take the next major step of their lives should be honored. Beyond the process of graduation, which may or may not roughly coincide with the completion of an athletes athletic eligibility or involvement with the program, whatever the cause, that next step should be honored. Most of these young men and women have been actively pursuing the sport...or sports...of their choice since early childhood.
Some may go on to pursue their sport at another school, perhaps by beginning a course of graduate study, while others may take the next step to professional athletics.
Most, however, will see this as the end of high-level competitive play in a sport that has likely been a major part of the majority of their life. For those men and women, to say that this is a life adjustment, is the understatement of the season. Of course, the transition from college student to making a living in the wide world is an adjustment just on its own, but for student-athletes, the change is even more drastic.
Taking a few minutes, before one of the last home competitions of the season, to honor those seniors, to remember their contributions, to laugh at awkward pictures from their childhood displayed in all of their jumbotron glory, is more than a little bittersweet, but is an important observation of where they have come from.
Taking a moment to reflect before taking the next big step forward is healthy, it puts the hard work and time spent in context. Whether that moment of contemplation is more important to the athlete, or to the family and friends that have supported them, and yes even us, the fans, is a question that I don't have an answer for.
Softball honored four seniors before the double-header started on Sunday. Two of the seniors, Brittany Duncan and Kelsi Jones, transferred from other schools and were only able to play for the Cards for two years. Their value, even in just two years, to the Cardinal Softball team can not be adequately described. Whitney Arion and Kayla Soles, however, were with UofL Softball for four years, and, in addition to the value of their play on the field which is considerable, have provided continuity and have helped create the wonderful culture that exists on the softball team.
The activities of senior day do become somewhat scripted, I fear. For the staff that works with these teams, and even to the fans, we see a similar staging in each sport, each season, but I hope that we can take those few moments as the athletes walk out, flanked by family or those who have taken on the role of family, to claim a framed jersey and bouquet of flowers and to have their picture taken with the coaches, to remember what this moment means to these players, to what it means for their life journey, and to remember that we all are part of supporting them...perhaps only a small part, but a part nonetheless...and helping them embark on their life as adults.
Paulie and I are blessed, in our work with Cardinal Couple, to get to know some of the young women of UofL athletics on something of a personal level, and I believe we are doubly blessed when those relationships...limited though they may be...continue on beyond the departure from the halls of academia and the sports facilities of Floyd Street and elsewhere.
To Brittany, Kelsi, Whitney, Kayla, and all of the other seniors of this year: Its been a pleasure watching you play your sport for the past years, we wish you well in whatever the next step in your life is.
On a side note, UofL Softball quietly added something to the Senior Day festivities that I heartily approve of. Just after the main ceremony was concluded one of the staff members went over to Boston College's dugout and gave bouquets of flowers to the Boston College seniors. BC will honor these seniors in their own Senior Day festivities, of course, but I thought it was a nice touch to include the other team in the honors. While I have seen this gesture made in other Senior Day ceremonies, its not a common occurrence.
Golf Going To South Bend
The NCAA selection for Golf occurred Monday evening, and UofL was selected as the 11th seed for the NCAA Regional being hosted by Notre Dame in South Bend. The regional competition will be May 7th-9th at Warren Golf Course. The top six teams and three individuals not associated with those six teams will advance to the NCAA championship which will be May 22-27 at Concession Golf Club in Bradenton, FL.
jmca